If you've been with someone for this length of time you'll have to ask yourself what reservations have I got?
如果你和某人生活了这么长时间,你得问一下自己,你对这段婚姻满意吗?
She didn't visit her step-mother much, though I believe that they used to speak on the phone from time to time.
她不常看望她的继母,虽然,我相信她们过去时不进在电话里聊一聊。